Nikita said: September 2, 2009 4:34 pm PST
Ellen: I am sorry for your suffering, but the good news is that, with dedication and motivation, OCD is entirely treatable. If you are not receiving ERP or CBT treatment from a trained therapist, there are some things you should know. The gold standard treatment for OCD is ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention), which is a form of CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). ERP is best undergone with a therapist specializing in the treatment of OCD using CBT and ERP. You should make it a top priority of yours to find a good therapist. I would recommend going to the OCF website and searching for a treatment provider in your area. Other good resources for finding an ERP/CBT therapist include http://adaa.org/ and http://abct.org/. You can also become a part of the Yahoo group called "OCD in Parenting" as well as our group, "OCD Kids Sacramento", to get recommendations from other families about qualified therapists across the country. If you are unable to find a therapist, you can look into self-help books such as The OCD Workbook by Bruce Hyman, Ph.D. and Cherry Pedrick, R.N..
If you are already working with a therapist, I would encourage you to stay strong and engross yourself in facing your fears. Think about all the things that OCD keeps you from doing, and all the things you could spend that time doing. You can overcome OCD if you have faith that facing your fears will result in an ultimate reduction of your stress level, have a strong support system, stay committed and courageous, and have a good therapist leading you through therapy. Overcoming OCD is probably the hardest thing you will have to do in your life, but overcoming it will also provide you with the greatest happiness of your life. Stay strong and face your fears in the hopes that one day you will be free of OCD!